I’ve had another miscarriage. It was a “missed miscarriage” this time. The baby died in utero, but my body didn’t reject it, so it had to be removed surgically. I started bleeding three weeks after the baby died. It was removed from my womb two weeks later. It’s been one week since the operation and it’s been tough. Incredibly tough. Pain is almost always viewed as something negative, as something we must strive to avoid. But there is a point to pain. In the words of someone